Saturday, April 24, 2010

Judith Damaris Allison

Judith Damaris Allison was born at 3:43 am on, April 22, 2010. She weighed 6 lbs, 6 oz and measured 18 inches in length. That's considerably smaller than her brothers. Jonas and Judith were both 3 days early, but Jonas was a full pound heavier and 2 inches longer. Judith had a weight check today (1 day earlier than usual because she's so little), but is still only 4.3% down from her birthweight (allowable is up to 10%), so she's doing great!


Here's her story:

On Tuesday evening beginning about 4:30pm, I began having contractions. Throughout the evening they were about 10 min apart and uncomfortable. I went to bed and was awakened 6-8 times in the night by the contractions, but by Wed. morning, they had pretty much stopped. I had just a few throughout the day on Wed.

About 7pm Wed evening, I began to have uncomfortable contractions that grew increasingly more painful and frequent. For a couple of hours they were about 10 min apart, then for several hours they were about 7 min apart. It seemed like one would be a little more intense and painful, and the next would be less so, then another painful one--alternating back and forth. Mike and I tried to go to bed about 11pm. One of us was successful in that endeavor, and the other of us returned to the living room to pace. I watched TV, snacked, and paced the living room timing contractions.

Shortly after midnight, I called my friend Susan. She had expressed an interest in helping me through early labor and was also planning to stay at home with the boys overnight if we had to go to the hospital. She had just returned home from an "extended" vacation in the Canary Islands (where they had been stranded for longer than anticipated due to the volcanic ash situation). I told her that I was pretty sure it was actual labor, but didn't know if it we would be leaving any time soon for the hospital or whether it would be many more hours, but she was welcome to come if she liked. She decided to go ahead and come, since she was so tired. She thought if she got into much deeper sleep, she might not wake up if I called again. So she was on her way. I called my Mom to chat for a while and give her an update.


Susan arrived and assumed the responsibility of timing and logging my contractions. We chatted for an hour or so. She showed me pictures from her trip, etc.

Then the conractions seriously stepped it up in painfulness and length (from about 45 sec of pain to about 1 min, 10 sec). The new and improved contractions were coming about 4 min apart. After about 30 min of those, I called labor and delivery. The nurse said it was up to me whether I wanted to come in or not, but that I could probably afford to wait another hour or so. I said I'd wait, so I decided to get in the bath for a bit. I layed in the bath for another 30 min or so chatting and timing. When the water had gotten lukewarm, I decided to get out, and start getting ready to go to the hospital (which also included waking my sleeping husband).

As I was toweling off, the contractions started coming about 2-3 minutes apart. I woke Mike, got a few remaining items into the travel bag, called L&D to let them know I was coming in, and called my Mom to let her know we were leaving for the hospital. The contractions are coming hard and fast, and I'm definitely wishing my husband would move a little faster.







At last, we were on our way to the hospital. It's a 15 min drive--thank goodness there's no traffic at 3am. At some point during this drive I began to feel the first urges to push.

We arrived at the hospital about 3:15am. I was desperately hoping (due to my having called ahead) that they would have someone meet us with a wheel chair. That was not the case. So it took a couple of stops and starts before we made it in the door. There was no walking when I was having a contractions. I could not will my feet to move.

When the elevator arrived on the second floor, Mike had to block the doors from closing as I could not leave the elevator until yet another contraction had passed. The urges to push were getting pretty strong and it was at this point, when I looked at Mike and I said, "I think she's coming" that I, and probably Mike too, was near panic that I would not get to the bed in time. We made it down the hall and into the ward, where I was promptly ushered to a bed and checked. The nurse said I was ready to go and asked if I was wanting to push. The answer was an enthusiastic and urgent, "YES!" She said, "Let me go wake the Dr. No pushing when I'm not in the room!" When the next one came, there was a little bit of uncontrollable pushing and Mike had to remind me to, "Breathe!"


The Dr came in and I began to push. Mike and I remember this part differently. Mike says it was 3 or 4 pushes. I'm pretty sure it was more like 8-10. At any rate, shortly after arrival, Judith was born. No time for IVs or anything else. The Dr asked if we had a plan B for delivering in the car. Mike gave her a wide-eyed, "Noooo".


My water never broke (until she was coming out). In Germany (and elsewhere too perhaps, although I'd never heard it), it's said that if a baby is born with it's bag of water, it will have clairvoyance. That, in addition to being born on Earth Day makes her our official "flower child".

For the record, yes, I had committed to a natural birth this time around and to stay at home to labor for as long as possible. (Lots of prayers from my committed friends and family made this possible!) I didn't have the best experiences with epidurals when I had the boys. I definitely don't condemn epidurals. Even with the (minor) complications I had with mine, they were immensely helpful with pain management and after being in pain for days, I don't think I could have done it any other way. However, I will say that now that I've succeeded in natural childbirth, I do feel like I had the "real" experience. And it HURT! Mike definitely prefers this experience over our two others. He was only there for 45 min of it. Which I suppose would be preferable for just about anybody.

The boys LOVE their baby sister. They are fascinated by our new little family member and are very gentle with kisses.

Here's a video of her first bath (for Grandma Scarlet:).

Sunday, April 11, 2010

A Beautiful Day in Germany




Mike had Friday off from work and for the first time in quite a while, he wasn't up to his eyeballs in school work. So we had a fun filled family day.












First, it was off to the park to play. The occupational therapist says that parks are great for developing both gross and fine motor skills. And of course, what kid doesn't love to play at the park?



Then we had some pizza.









Then we went to a field near our house to fly this little airplane kite Mike brought home for the kids a while ago. I think Ezra really liked it, but Jonas mostly just rolled around in the grass.




Eventually, the airplane got stepped on and one of the streamers got pulled off. So then...we went to another park.




We played for a bit, and swung on the swings. Then it was time for a nap.





After a short nap, it was time to go to the circus. It was no Barnum Bros., but not bad by European standards. At the intermission, the kids got to feed the camels and take a look at the animals.





















I'm 38 weeks pregnant. Officially full term. She can come any time...


Judith left. Jonas right.





Sunday, April 04, 2010

Easter 2010




Thursday, we went to Story Time at the library, and Ezra made this bunny mask. He proceeded to wear it on and off for the rest of the weekend. I know it's hard to tell, so for the sake of clarification, Ezra is the one looking at the camera, and Jonas is the one looking at the eggs.



Saturday was the official kick-off for our Easter weekend.While I went to get a much needed and seldom indulged in pedicure with the girls, Mike took the boys to a park on base to participate in the "Eggstravaganza". It was a little nuts even in the 0-3 year old section, with parents hoarding more eggs than the kids, so they didn't get too many eggs. They still had a fun time playing though and both were really happy to meet and chat with the Easter bunny.
No pics. :( Mike can not be bothered with taking pictures.





Saturday afternoon, we dyed our Easter eggs. This will sound silly, but it's amazing what a difference a year makes. I had high hopes last year but was disappointed by Ezra's lack of interest in dying eggs. This year was much more fun. They were both able to follow instructions (put one dye tablet in each bowl), and wait patiently for the tablet to dissolve.







Easter morning, the boys looked through their Easter baskets, ate some candy, and hunted some eggs around the house. Then we went to a fantastic service at church and did our usual lunch/commissary routine.






That afternoon we went over to the Moll's and had our sitter take the kids downstairs so we could enjoy a lovely, adult meal. The Farmers put on another Easter egg hunt. These are a few pictures of the hunting.


















Then the kids enjoyed their Easter meal. (Except for Ezra who decided he wasn't going to eat anything on Easter besides candy--which made for one disappointed and hungry kid when he missed out on dessert because he didn't eat dinner.)




Happy Easter from the Allisons! What a wonderful occassion to celebrate Christ's resurrection!


Here's a video of the boys hunting eggs on Easter morning.






Oh, and in baby news, I'm 37 weeks today.
Left-Jonas, Right-Judith. Hmmm...